Video and Verbatim

Video and Verbatim Assignment
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Verbatim and Reflection
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00.00

Client

  To like constantly accept bad behavior as. Just being like who she is, like just boys being boys.





00.07

Counselor

Ok. Have you said, Ted, about? Her with her. I’m I’m talking about a clear-down resin when you do XYZ; this is how it makes you feel. I cannot accept XYZ.

Active listening lets the client know they are heard and you’re interested in what they are saying and prompt them to speak on the issue further.

It sounds like expressing how you feel, and others make you feel is a challenge for you.

I could have delved deeper into the constant bad behavior the client mentioned. To establish how deep the issues with his mother were.


00.28

Client

If you talk about my weight, my sexuality, my hair like, you’re not allowed to make those negative comments just because you’re ok, mother, period. And it takes a couple of reinforcements, and then, she’ll, like, kind of get it.
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00.43

Counselor

What do you mean a couple of reinforcements?

Using open-ended questions to show the client they are being heard and seeking clarification so they can explain further.

It sounds like the boundaries you have put in place do not work.

I wonder if the client has body and image issues.


00.55

Client

Have to think about what she said, what she said is, and then try and like get back what’s going to make sense at the moment and that that will happen like long times before.





1.06

Counselor

Ok

Active listening and affirming they have been heard.

I understand

I wonder if the client fears expressing themselves wholly to his mom.


1.17

Client

So nothing like all the time having to like arm myself to see her, you know.





1.25

Counselor

How does the? I am curious about the lead-up. Help me makes help me make a little bit of sense of that the lead-up to a conversation with your mom. What is going on with your body? What’s going on with your mind and leading into that conversation?

  Using encouraging descriptions of the client’s perception of the issue in a non-judgmental way to help them express their problem in a positive environment.  
 
 

It sounds like a conversation with your mom is different than average. And different things go through your mind and body during this period?

I wonder how conversations between the two start and what leads to escalating.


2.03

Client

I’m like, how was that Ok? What about this? Ok, I’ll talk to you later.





2.11

Counselor

I mean, just from your demeanor, it almost seems like walking through that, almost like you’re waiting for that sheet to drop. Ok, I know she’s going to say. Ex-wife, I know. So a little bit of anxiety, a little bit. Ok, ok, ok, didn’t. Did it come? Is it coming?

Using summary to reiterate what the client said demonstrating that you are listening and noting down what they say.

It sounds like your mom bringing up your past triggers your anxiety.

I wonder if my client has unresolved issues about his past, such as his ex-wife, which he has not dealt with, thus contributing to his anxiety.


2.31

Client

Right, yeah.





2.34

Counselor

Has there been like conversations where no matter what the download was, it was like? Parent and child, my child I mean.

Using rephrasing to help the client know they are being heard and get them to consider the situation differently.

It sounds like every conversation you have with your mom is always about you as her child.

I should have delved deeper into why they feel the conversations with their mom are one dimension.


3.15

Client

We had this big fight like almost a year ago, and oh my God I like pushed her. It was bad.





3.23

Counselor

A conflict that turned physical in some way?

Using focusing to gain insight into the occurrence and let the client speak more about it. 
 
 

What I am hearing is that you lost control and engaged your mom physically.
 
 

I wonder if their bottled-up emotions and anxiety about talking to his mom have led to other forms of loss of control and physical violence.


3.28

Client

And I yeah, I just think I have not been as equipped as she could be to handle kind of maybe getting better at that now, OK.





3.40

Counselor

OK, so how would you like her to be more supportive? What is a realistic expectation for that relationship right now?

Using reflection to help the client think of their situation, be accountable for it, and find solutions for themselves.

I get that you want a different relationship with your mom and another way for her to support you.

I wonder what kind of relationship they would want with their mother.


4.00

client

I need to accept that she is who she is and is just going like be this person who birthed me and who I talk with and she like gets me things for my birthday and loves me, but we don’t have anything past that.
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